GH, I've been trying to catch up with where you and PARob are with this whole thing, since I'd like to offer you any help or encouragement I can in return for yours. Perhaps it would make you feel better to know that I really envy you for the situation you have compared to my own - a wife that will talk to you about real things, admit to confusion, see her role in things, etc. You may think I'm nuts, but I've got a strong-willed W that seems to be racing toward a new committed relationship that basically replaces me. I'd be very encouraged by her be willing to respond to your pain. And Rob, if you see my post about last night, you can tell I have all those mixed feelings about living in the same house too, but I think it's best for DB'ing and no doubt best for our son.
