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but I can assure you, there are just as many drawbacks to living with the WAS as being separated.




Amen to that! That was something I struggled with on more than one occasion. Truthfully, I think the one major deciding factor (well, actually 3) was the thought of being a part-time daddy to my girls. That was one of my key motivations in staying despite the issues I had with being too "attached" to what my W was doing. I guess in some ways being detached is easier when you don't have to watch them everyday, but perhaps the process of getting to detachment with them aroun is healthier? I dunno, now I'm pontificating upon something I have no idea about.

In any event GH, hope your Wednesday is going well.

"Achieve success, but without vanity; Achieve success, but without aggression; Achieve success, but without gain; Achieve success, but without force." Lao Tzu