I dispensed with the script at the last minute because something inside told me that too much talking was bad and would just seem like me trying to build drama so...
M: W, can we talk for a minute. W: Sure. M: Can we sit down. W: Ok, what's up. M: First, I'm sorry I am a little nervous talking about this with you. I also want you to uderstand that through all this, I never tried to find things out. I never snooped. W: Yes, I know. M: Well, the other day, when you asked me to do your laundary, I was cleaning out your pockets and I found a reciept from a Walmart in xxx. W: Ok. (she didn't seem to be nervous about what I was saying) M: On it was a pregnancy test. W: Yes, I know. I was picked up by a friend, and yes, it's someone who knows HIM and I went with her because she asked me. M: So it wasn't yours? W: NO, I could only be pregnant from immaculate conception. I have not had sex for as long as you haven't. M: Ok. So you went with a friend and you paid for the test for her to take? W: Yes. I was already buying some things and she was nervous to buy it. M: Ok. W: So you got all worked up over this? I knew someting was wrong. I asked you several times over the past couple days what was up (she did). I know you, and I knew you were stewing over something. M: Do you blame me? What does it look like? W: I know what it looks like and I understand why you thought what you did but I can only tell you it had nothing to do with me.
From there insued a LONG (3 hours) R talk and a TON of new territory was covered. WAY too much to get into here.
The main points that kept comming up was that she wants me to just be direct and honest RIGHT AWAY when I find something like that in the future. She did't like that it took a few days but is glad I talked to her.
All in all, it was VERY good. We ended up talking about a lot of things in detail that we either never talked about before or only touched on.
I have to say, I believe her. I do believe her story for some reason and that comes for the entire conversation. It just seems like she isn't hiding anything. She told me all kinds of thing about OM and his friends. She answered any question I had.
