Oh, and BTW, when my W turns this around, she REALLY turns it around. When I have asked/accused/whatever about the PA in the past, she went off on me, asking me what kind of person I thought she was, etc. It's not like she shuts down, she attacks full force...then shuts down. She's very good at what she does. She VEHAMENTLY denies this thing when she does manage to deny it. We'll see what happens this time. Too bad I think it will be more of that and less of the "openness" part. I just don't think she's ready for whatever reason...yet I persist...tonight...