Taking a step back...GH saga part 11

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Also, pushing someone to answers they aren't ready to give because they don't know the answers themselves almost always leads to bad results.

I think this is some of the most valuable insight I've gained today. How guilty have I been of that in the past.....forutnately I've come to recongize it over the past few months....

So, maybe, a brief effort-- a hug + "I know this is scary and hard, I promise to try my best to be supportive and to not push you for answers you aren't ready to give..." {Hmmm, maybe say this pre-emptively???}

I really like this approach!