Ok, thanks for the validation on this. I was totally unsure if it was "right". I guess my instincts are ok afterall.
Now, the other thing I am afraid of is an outright denial, her saying that it was for someone else or something. What do I do then? I know in my mind I would be screaming "liar" over and over again but I don't think I want to say that. I guess I would just let it drop at that point and as Rob said, accept that things are not as far along as I thought.