Chris, Thanx for the advice. I will see what I can do with it. However, I won't tell him that I will accept him/support him even if the feelings do not come back. Because I don't know if I really can. I am all for unconditional love, but I do think I won't be that supportive if he flakes out again! Especially if there are no other problems besides he doesn't "love me the way a husband should love his wife". And while an OW is just waiting for him.... I just don't think I am capable of accepting that. So I don't want to lie to him. But I will let him know that I know things are hard and confusing for him right now, that he has all the time and space he needs to find those feelings again. I can do that....
