My friends,

Just want to post about some of the realizations that have occurred to me over the last few weeks.

I have found that as my W is begining to accept that I am a changed person she is slowly starting to vocalize her part and her understanding in our separation. I have found this most comforting and has really cemented our relationship.

She has also told me that it was my continuous faith in "us" no matter how she was doing of how she was acting that allowed her to come back.

I post this now to help some of you who are close to breaking through but need reasons to believe. You need faith in the process as it's this faith that allows you to show your SO that there is a way back. That it is a safe place where he or she is not judged by to craziness of the past.

I hope this makes some sense to some of you.

Chris