Chris,

It really seems like your marriage is once again on solid ground. I'm thrilled for you as is everyone else here on this site. With all of the gains you have both made, make sure that you dont get too comfortable with the marriage and revert back to your old habits. I'm sure you'll agree that it wouldnt be hard to do for the "old Chris". But like me, you've learned so much over the past 6months. this will keep you on the right path.

Your story and advice are keeping me going right now. Now that things are going well with you and your wife, I hope you'll still be hanging out here occasionally.

Be proud of yourself. You had the courage to admit your part in all of this and had the strength to see it through. Your wife is a lucky woman and I think she now realizes it.

Dave