Chris, CONGRATULATIONS!!!! This is fantastic news,and this really gives me some hope. How long was your separation again? How long from when she came home til she could open up and let you love her and let herself love you? Remind me again... did she tell you after she came home (I am trying to remember if she actually left) that she wasn't sure if she belonged there (with you)? I am trying so hard to be patient... but I hate my life feeling like it is "on hold". CONGRATULATIONS!!!! This is sooooo wonderful for both of you!!!