Hi Chris- I don't think I've ever posted to you in the past, but I've followed your story for some time. Let me be the first though to send you one very big CONGRATULATIONS! The support and advice that you have given others is incredible and your patience has been so inspiring.
I'm in my 16 month of separation and am truly seeing some encouraging signs re. possible reconciliation with my H. Your words of wisdom, along with others', has really helped me to let things move at a natural pace without the tempting pressure to accelerate everything.
I'm very happy for you and wish you the absolute best--Jamie