This weekend marked us breaking out of the trap that our past actions and lack of communication had set for us.
We are a happily married couple in every sense of the word.
It happened this weekend because we were both ready to "let it happen". We were both ready to accept that we had made mistakes and we would not judge each other by them.
I am on the road I want to travel now and I thank and forgive my W for leaving me, for it was her who made me face my selfishness, my control, and my survivor attitude.
Yes I went through a living hell but I believe it was needed to truely apprieciate who I am and what I am capable of.
I am so happy to have such a good life to share with the most wonderful and beautiful W I could ever hope to find.
Chris
[This message has been edited by ChrisJ (edited 03-20-2000).]