Frustrated,

I agree with Paris, take it slow, don't rush. I am so happy for you though! It is so important to have total openness of communication, you are on a good start! And it is easier to type out your feelings than saying them, but you have to watch that too! One of my biggest problems was when my H was still home, I would get mad, but instead of telling him, I would write a letter...big mistake, he would just speed read right through it not comprehending anything that was written. Online is a little different though. Anyway, you are on the right track, I really hope it works out for you, I'm rooting for you! Just don't rush. Also, when you get a chance, could you maybe find the article you found on deep love? I would like to send it via email to my H. Thank you. And as always, it does do so much good to post to allow yourself to vent, and to read others' posts, gives you a little ray of hope!