My suggestion is to leave this in God's hands. It's the est thing I have done. I feel more at peace, althought I do have my days. I believe that there is always a chance. My Ex H also told me "this is the hardest thing I have ever done". But he had not been happy for the last 20 years, and didn't want the next 25 to be the same. (we had been married for 27 years when he left.) I just keep"standing" for my marriage.
I gave my ex The Purpose Driven life, I dont' know if he read it, but if he did he saw the first sentence. "It's not about me".
