I am sorry that you find yourself here. They will go back and forth about spending time with the kids or at least that is what has been happening with my W. She is going out of town this weekend with OM and will miss my S8's baseball game (which earlier this week she was complaining about needing to spend more time with him. But she also feels that she has not spend enough time with OM because they are living together not that far from our house. We are in the middle of getting divorced and I am trying to keep our house and the kids. I have faith that she will get through this and will want to be a part of our life again instead of just a vistor. I think that my WAW is having a MLC, but we have to learn to detach and work on ourselves. This is hard, because I have slipped many times myself because of how much I love her. I have told her that I forgive her and I am here for her (and left her in God's hands for now).
