If you have filed can you unfile? That's a legal question. If you do not want the divorce then have you told him that? (without pleading) In the book 'Purpose driven life' one of the first items is 'It's not about you'. Hit me like a ton of bricks. Every MLCer needs to learn that or plan to sleep a lot of nights on the ground.
"All I want is a weeks pay for a day's work" Steve Martin
