Hello John (Martian) Thank you so much for coming on this board and trying to help us all try to understand what our spouses may be doing to us. I have one question that comes to mind and I'm sure there are others on this board that would like the answer to the same question. Did you lie and lie again to try and push your wife away so that you could ease your guilt. My husband lies so much to me that he forgets what he even told me to begin with. I'm praying with all my heart that he IS doing the lying to try to push me away. He is not doing a very good job at it either. I sometimes actually think I love him more now than when we got married just for the simple fact that I feel I somehow know him a little bit better and that his absense has definetly made the heart grow stronger. So many times my friends complain about their husbands and I just cry. How I would like to have my husband at home to not do anything around the house, or to complain when something isn't done right. I tell them that they should thank their lucky stars because life throws strange curves and someday they may not be there for them to complain about. Any help you can give is most welcome to all of us here. Give your wife a big hug for her birthday and thank God everyday for her unconditional love for you.
