John, Welcome! So good to have you here. Your wife worked a superhuman miracle to get you back among the living. I know that you appreciate her for trying so hard.
I thought I posted something to you last night, but I see it didn't make it....Oh well...that's life in cyberspace....
Now, tell me something about life in outer space....I have some questions that maybe you can help to answer. Particularly, I am curious as to what drives you martians to come up with the phrases, "I don't know" and "I don't remember" to everything that's asked of you?
What is keeping my spouse from apologizing for his behavior and the near destruction of his family? What is keeping my spouse from recommitting verbally to the marriage? (He has been home for 9 months after a 2-month "separation".)
Can you recommend any particular actions on my part to make him feel better about life? I am thinking about offering him parole---you know, telling him that if he really wants ow, he should go to her, because I don't want him to only stay with me because he can't have her. How much of his behavior is based in pride?
Well, that's enough for you to ponder right now. I reserve the right to ask you more later, though (if you don't mind) .