Jo: read your post on my thread, this thread and tia's thread. i would like to invite him for dinner.i have done that in the past and he always has an excuse. tomorrow is his day off. i am working but i know he has to stop by and give me a check. maybe when he calls tonight i will invite him for tomorrow night. i think he will remind me it doesn't mean we are getting back together. how should i respond to that type of comment...and how should i respond if he says no. i simply want him to take a risk and spend time with me. i told him he doesn't know the person who lives in this house. do send me advice. i want to be positive. i think people are not calling me because i am depressing to be around. i have vowed to myself to always be there when friends are lonely. and you are right. can't dwell in what could have been. what scares me is in my mind i think i know the future does not include him. my heart does not agree. the two have not met yet!
