hi Joanne - i was reading your site this morning - it's so nice to hear good news for a change. I'm so glad everything is working out for you. I'm not too familiar with your story, but how did your h start turning around? How long have you both been separated? my h has moved out 2 months ago - and there is no sign of reconciliation on his part at all. he comes by to visit the kids once a week and tries not to have any contact with me. He keeps telling everyone he needs to get on with his life. I don't think there is an ow. i feel so hurt - i always feel like i want to do something - like try and talk some sense to him - or have a friend talk to him - i can't seem to stop thinking of a way to get through to him. I don't beg or plead anymore - i only did that the first 3 weeks he was gone - now i say nothing - no contact - i'm afraid to talk about anything with him. From your experience, what do you think? should i just keep playing it cool - no relationship conversations - stop trying to get back together with him ? Neither one of us has filed for d yet - i don't even think he's even seen a lawyer. What do you think i should do? how long did it take your h to come around? what were the signs? what did you do to help this happen? Thanks so much for your advice. Your story give me hope.
