Hi All - Just wanted to let you know that so far everything is going well. The first couple of weeks were not easy, but we are both over that now and really are working positively together and talking has become so much easier. Sonia, Johnswife, David - thanks for keeping me in line during that sticky time. I have told him about this site and how much it has helped me focus on the right direction and he has asked if he can look at it and maybe help out as well. So I have deleted my venting ramblings.
I am now relaxed and at peace with where we are at right now because I know that we are both going to do a lot of talking about our feelings, what has gone on and where we want to go together. It's a good feeling. I have a new man with a new and different attitude, the anger is gone and his gentle and loving side is out there and working hard. His barriers are down and he is being open and honest. That's all we need to be able to move on to better things.
Three months ago I wouldn't have bet any money that we would have been here today but I am living proof that Michele's techniques do work. Thank goodness I found this site two months ago.
I'll keep visiting and will do my best to advise where I can.
