Did you ask him to read one or the other? Remember, we can't assume that because we left reading material in open sight that it will be read. Or (like my H) did you get the "I'm not a reader" answer. AUGH!
I have wanted to ask my H to make the effort to read one or the other, just to let him know how I tick, but we're not there yet. I think our H's would find the results from their effort....amazing. We must remember, you can lead a horse to water, but you can't make him drink.
Another suggestion? Tell him, tell him just what you need. For example if most mornings you like to be greeted with a kiss & hug with your morning coffee, then tell him. You can't assume he should just know to do it. I know, after "x" amount of years together you think you know someone...but, we obviously know different here in DB Land!
By the way, how long has it been since you and your H have been living back together? Did you have a period of getting back together B4 he moved home? Just curious. Hang in there JW, maybe just some time will cure things for you. Keep in touch.
Chelsea
[This message has been edited by Chelsea (edited 02-21-2000).]
