Chelsea I bought Light Her Fire and layed it on the end table next to his recliner. He won't even open the first page. I left "His Needs Her Needs in the bathroom where I thought he might take a minute to see what my needs are and again he didn't even open the cover. Thanks for your support. Got any more suggestions?
I know my H cares about me but for some reason I don't understand he can't show me he cares in the ways I want. Unfortunatley it has left me feeling as though my needs are simply not important to him, and that is so painful to me when I have worked so hard to meet his needs. I will see my therapist alone in a few hours. I sure hope she can help me understand why he is the way he is.
[This message has been edited by Johnswife (edited 02-21-2000).]