You sound like you've found such peace within yourself and about your relationship with H. I'm so glad to hear that. Keep up the good work and may you continue to learn and understand.
JW,
I understand your concern too. Wouldn't it be nice that besides H's return home he also came packed with a new, complete understanding of what you need. I could ramble about this subject, but won't. For now, think positive and enjoy what you have. Once you feel you are really over the hurdle and the two of you are stronger, try a new approach to what YOU want from him. Right now he may interpret it differently at this phase of your reconcillation. Don't forget "Light Her Fire" by Ellen Kriedman. He just may enjoy it!! Good luck to you and I admire your success and patience.
