Mary BB, Del, Sonia--you all have sure worded things to a T as far as our feelings and what we can & should do about them. Like Del had stated, that could be my post! I guess it's just a matter of seeing that silver lining, which happens at different times for all of us.

Because we have "suffered" through their infidility and leaving, we assume they should drop to our feet for forgiveness. But on the flip-side, there was a reason for their actions (even though I may never fully understand, but will work to accept). It takes two!

Ronnie, I'm doing alright. I'll post under other thread and leave this one for trust issues. Nice to hear from you!

Chelsea