You told your child to do something, the child decided to do something else first, you asked her three maybe four times using the broken record technique.
Then your husband/wife intervened and said to your child, "Go to your room, I am not having you ignoring your mother".
You were left feeling angry because the person triggered a helpless feeling within you.
You tell your husband/wife you were handling things, they say "I won't sit back whist xxxxx, treats you with disrespect, she/he'll be running ring around you next, when I am not here."
Has this person step over your boundaries???
I felt angry because and frustrated with myself because I wasn't sure what to do??
What could I have done that would be effective???
How would you handle this, so that you were being respectful to your husband/wife?
Also how could I handled this so I was respecting my child???
I hope someone posts as I am feeling very frustrated as this happens alot of times.
