I am a little unsure of a few things, maybe you can steer me back on course.
Firstly, I am a little unsure of how my relationship should be now.
How can I tell if I am doing things for me and not for approval?
How should things be to be healthy?
What's normal?
The reason I ask is for so long infact ever since I met my H we've had a turmoil in our lives. I now am not sure what to expect from a healthy marriage.
In fact I'm unsure what one is?
I've been so use to trying to figure out what's wrong and how to fix it that now I don't know what I should be doing?
I am finding it a little unfamiliar and uncomfortable. I thought I'd be happy once I'd at last stated my needs, I know i have to guard the agreements we've made but as for a healthy relationship I haven't a clue what's normal.
