I am working on going Ghandi on her. I have begun using e-mail to communicate about mundane items during the week and it's quite amusing to see the "alternate reality" she is living in right now. No more telling me, "I NEVER said that." It's all there in the e-mail. If I need clarification, I can ask for it by e-mail. It's quite empowering for me to communicate with her this way right now.
The e-mail exhange had me smiling A LOT today. To read wht she is saying is much easier than dealing with all of the accompanying negative emotions. I could have done this ages ago. Less of her bluff and bluster. I'd rather have less communication than lies and intentionally hurtful communication.
