I am so sorry to read about the latest developments in your sitch. It sounds like your W has friends similar to my W's.
When my W was planning to leave me for the OM, I found one of her e-mails where she said that she and a couple of her best friends had spent the weekend deciding what to do (ie., how she was going to execute her exit). Both of these friends know me and had knowledge of the OM. And these are real friends? Where are the ones saying you should work things out with your H?
William Penn said: "Right is right even if everyone is against it; and wrong is wrong even if everyone is for it." The fact that my W's friends would assist her in leaving for the OM with all of its devastation is beyond me. I may not have been the best husband, but I always strived to treat my W and these friends with warmth and courtesy. Talk about feeling stabbed in the back! It is all very pathetic.
