Went to work today, of course. My W was working today and made several phone calls to me. I have been breaking my autopilot with regard to either taking her calls or calling right back to help her. I have been doing a much better job of letting it go to voicemail and calling her back when it fits into my schedule instead of letting her wants supercede my schedule. She actuall commented on it today by saying, "Why can't I get you on your cell phone?" I told her I often leave it in my car since I am not waiting on calls from anyone. She rolled her eyes on moved on.
My D's class put on a singing play tonight. It was so cute. I was there with my W, MIL, and S(9 months). My S only wanted to be in Daddy's arms. I think it bothers my wife that my D is a Daddy's girl and my S is a Daddy's boy. She has told her potential beaus that it makes her sick that MY blood is in their veins. Hopefully that sentiment has softened. And yes, that was a cheeseless tunnel that cured me. I did NOT need to know tht sentiment. This is hard enough already.
My W went out to dinner with her mother tonight after the play. My MIL came back driving my W's car saying the my W ran into a girlfriend. Riiiiiiiiiight! I don't believe much of what my W says these days and apparently she has her mother lying for her. Oh well. Her mother said she told my W not be too late. To be a "good girl." Again, riiiiiiight. Again, oh well.
My plan for when she gets home is to say nothing and to be pleasant. I am going to kill her with kindness. No confrontations.
I think it bothers my wife that my D is a Daddy's girl and my S is a Daddy's boy. She has told her potential beaus that it makes her sick that MY blood is in their veins. Hopefully that sentiment has softened. And yes, that was a cheeseless tunnel that cured me. I did NOT need to know tht sentiment. This is hard enough already.
