I hope so too. I know her though. She defines the words stubborn and egocentric. My worry is that she will jump into another relationship, which will affect our children, perhaps negatively. I understand that I have no control over that though.
I really want to ask her the question, "If our R could magically have little or NO problems, would you want to reconsider going through with a D?" I don't do that because I believe it would be considered pressure and/or pursuit and make my already sticky sitch worse (if that's even possible). I would love for her to read Michelle's Change Your Life and Everyone In It. Then again, I would love a lot of things.... Me loving something different in my life doesn't make it advisable or smart. *shrug* I do really feel that she might take a second looks at the possibilities in her life and M if she read that info with an open mind. Again, *shrug*
