Quote: Hmmm. It would have been so much easier if you had told her that you were speaking to a marriage counselor instead of "Vernetta." Not qualifying it makes it sound like ti could be a new "OW."
Thanks for offering another way to look at it. I wasn't trying to be secretive. I just didn't want it to be perceived as pursuing.
Quote: If you can have a decent conversation with her I would come to her and tell her that you have been trying to understand all that went wrong with your relationship and contacted a marraige counselor and THAt is why you were on the phone so long.
I really thought calling V a marriage counselor would be taken as pursuit. I can always clarify that now. I just don't want her to perceive it as pressuring her.
BTW, she often has her dating beaus stopping by the office to see her. Happended today. She asked me to take care of an appointment for her because she couldn't make it. I told her NO, because I am too busy at work doing MY stuff. I drove back to the office and saw her seeing another beau. This is the same person I saw her meeting LAST week when she had me doing a bunch of HER crap for HER job. I am a blind dummy no more! She makes no attempt to hide what she is up to. Makes me sad, not mad, though. Or perhaps I am being stupid and blind? Perhaps?
