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Her first response, if I had to guess, would be "where the hell was all this love when you were screwing the other woman!?"


OUCH. I know the pain I am in is my own creation, but D*MN!

Today, I went golfing on a beautiful day in the mid 90's. Golfing and interacting with my friends was just what I needed to keep my mind diverted from my fragile marriage. I will certainly do lots more of that while I am GAL. Great cure for my sorrows and self pity.

The friend I was golfing with, who knows my W, told me that he believes the reason my wife is behaving the way she is towards me is, not so much hurt, as REVENGE! He said it's VEANGANCE you are seeing from her. I hope she gets her revenge work over sooner rather than later. I do know this though, I am stronger and much more resilient than she gives me credit for. I hope that someday she won't feel like..."where the hell was all this love when you were screwing the other woman!? I know, I am the hopeless hopeFUL romantic.

I went shopping with my children tonight for my W's Mother's Day present. 5 year olds pick the funniest stuff. Oh, and BTW Amy, I decided on sticking with a Mother's Day card (& card only) for her from me. Thanks for the advice. Thanks for helping me stay the DB course.

Last edited by Hopeful_Husband; 05/12/06 02:58 AM.

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