GG thanks for stopping by my thread. I left a reply for you on your thread. My H was talking about his plans for the future this evening and I let him know I still worry that he is going to flip back into the alien on day without warning and that scares me. He said not to worry and that he beamed the alien back into outer space and he isn't coming back. (H is a trekkie) I told him to make sure there is no transporter room for the alien to sneak back. My H has never had much patience and he is showing that he knows I need some time to feel safe again and seems to be real understanding about that.
Chelsea I forgot to mention on my last post to you that from all I have read the OW's most of the time are not as good looking as the wives. Their strength is that they make our H's feel good about themselves and they don't have to nag at them about anything. It is real surprising to us wives to see that the OW is not better than us in any way usually except that they are treating our H's like knights in shining armour and stroking their egos. Think about it. It does make a lot of sense. I know when I figured that out I realized that I hadn't made my H feel good about himself on any regular basis and that he needed that so much that when she did he wanted to spend more time with her so he could feel valued and appreciated.
