Johnswife, Hi! You'd better not leave! We need you here. You're one of the best success stories and a great role model---living proof that DB works and can be done, even with a stubborn spouse.
Ronnie, JW's right---you are doing soooo much better. It takes time to feel "normal" again. But you will. Baby steps. Just like you're doing. I think your 180 of no questions will work.