You obviously have a rough road ahead, but your focus on what is important is what counts. I myself have three gorgeous D's and that has helped me stay the course more than anything at this point. Fortunately, I beleive a lot of progress has been made in my sitch, but I still see a lot of work ahead. Too me, you sound like a very grounded person who has a great PMA and the ability to do what is necessary for you and your children.

Something else to add here, I also was on the other side of the fence about two years ago....somewhere in here I have a thread (if I can find it again I will link it) so I definitely have some insight into what you are going through right now, although my W at the time really never expressed a desire to D and we reconciled, although given my current sitch, we failed to address our basic underlying issues. But enough about me....

Keep us posted and good luck.

Last edited by PArob; 05/08/06 06:53 PM.
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