Actually GH, that threw me for a loop as well.

NO!

You can't "act mysterious" when you are the one that cheated!
It's only going to make her think you are STILL up to something.

HH, your best strategy is to take the time necessary to get back your self esteem. WHY is YOUR self esteem so damaged by this mistake????
I think there is more to it.
I am inclined to tell you what the men on here sometimes tell each other..."GROW A PAIR!" ...but I am starting to think you did indeed HAVE a pair which she promptly put in a mason jar and set atop the mantle the day you were married!

HH....YOU screwed up. You're sorry. But she's overboard.
HOW DARE SHE THINK that is license for her to treat you like less than the dirt beneath her feet!

Look in the mirror. You lived and you learned. You did it the hard way. A lot of us do. But she is not the judge, the jury, the executioner and she sure is not your God so stop seeking redemption in her eyes. You're on level ground, HH.

You say she has known for 2 and a half months....well that is enough time for the anger to have subsided. She's now just being a....no, I'll tone it down....she's now just being a brat.

LRT.
GAL.
...and don't you dare run everytime she whistles. Okay?!


Amy