does what Sophie says ring true? Could your W have been trying to get your attention instead of control you? Absolutely, as a distinct possibility.
Quote: ...this is a really good thing to understand because it gives you a clue as to her love language(s) and something you may need to address farther down the line.
I am ordering the Love Language book tonight. Sounds like REQUIRED reading for me.
You know, destroying anything takes much less effort and thought than trying to put it all back together. I am so terribly sad and hurt for me and my family. UGH