The only thing that is still bothering me is this idea that at every turn in your marriage your W seems to be suggesting a D. There is something wrong there that will have to be addressed at some point. I know you love her but as much as you need to address YOUR issues, she does too. I am not suggesting YOU address her issues right now but be aware that true reconciliation will likely have to involve her changing her overall attitude towards your marriage and putting some REAL value in it. It seems like she's somehow thought of it as a disposable thing to this point. Again, that worries me.
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P.S. DMW, do you have a thread? You thanked me, so I thought I posted to you before but I can't seem to find you. If you have not started a thread, why don't you so we can help you directly if possible.
