Please, stick around! Your presense here can assist the rest of us through this recovery process.
You sound so much better, now that you've let the negativity go. Good for you! More progress, more baby steps forward.
Give yourself an A+ for handling yourself like the classy lady that you are (seeing OW at H's previous place of work). It must have been difficult. Had you previously met her? Or known what she looked like B4? I have this dememted desire to know what my H's OW looks like. Why? I keep asking myself. And I cannot know if it will hurt or help me if I do find out? And what would it matter anyhow? It's strange.
I am so happy for you JW, in that you and your H are living proof that Michele's technique works. Please don't leave DB land just yet. May we feed off your positive results?
I too believe David's advice about time and patience! It is an absolute must! Although there are time's when we lose sight of both of them.
