Thanks so much for chiming in here OT, Totally agree with you here,and since i could never get it all out i should write down what you said in a letter...maybe not. Like i said,My W is really sincere about US,and i believe her,and your right it is my own insecurities coming in here,but i just wanted her to be a little more sensitive to what i have been through here. One thing that has really been hard is that i know my house was entered by 2 Op.We went and bought a new comforter and things,but that has been the hardest thing to deal with..I work the 3rd shift,and dont want to think about these things anymore...I really havent a whole lot..like i said things have been going so great to where i kNOW my W is committed to me for life now,im just scared of the situation if it were to arise if someone were to try and contact her..how would she handle it..i want her to stand up for me,and tell them to never try and reach her again.She says nobody is going to call her,and when i brought things up the other night i could definitely see the hurt in her eyes as a tear came down,and she definitely feels bad and guilty about all of this. I did ask and tell her i was scared of this whole thing a little bit.I said to her that it was a little wierd that for 6 months you didnt want to be married to me and didnt love me and it turned around so quickly.She said that she just didnt allow herself to spend any time with me because she thought that is not what she wanted,but once she did..we have had a great time and she never wants to be apart from me I guess time will take care of most of my concerns...i just want her to care about my feelings and yes..give some reassurance every once in a while. DeeJay
