Just wanted to drop in and let you all know that I am doing well. Reading your messages and seeing how much we all have in common helped a lot. I am accepting the fact that my H just doesn't think the same way I do and apparently many of your spouses don't either. I will try to learn as much as I can about how his mind works differently because I am sure that the more I understand the better our realtionship can be.
I read somewhere that women think with both sides of their brains and men can only think with one side. Interesting isn't it. I almost feel sorry for them because they are at a disadvantage. Hold on guys I know some of you are working harder than your wives are at putting your relationships back together. Maybe thats MLC. I still wonder sometimes if MLC is real or if it is an excuse to get away with doing bad things. For now I will consider it an illness they have no controll over and give them the same caring I would give to anyone who is ill.
Pondering we won't be going to Disneyland for some time however we are going to Reno this weekend. Our only child is getting married and we are planning on having a wonderful time. I am sure now that my perspective is in better shape I will be able to relax and enjoy what we do have together.
I would prefer to take the time and write a long post thanking each of you individualy but I am tired tonight and want to go to bed early. I have much to do in the next few days getting ready for this trip so might not be able to post as often as I would like. Know that I am with you all in spirit.
Congratulations GG on your wonderful success. I remember when you were writing the paper keeping your mind on something positive and it paid off didn't it. You derserve it and I am proud of you.
To all, please keep Ronnie going in my absence. She is doing so much better and finally seems to be getting a grip on this DB stuff. I will keep in touch.
