you sound so wonderful JW. how i wish someday i could write on this forum for the right reasons instead of writing here for help. i think maybe that is why i have chosen this forum...so maybe, someday.
i love your title, h is fixed. how can they be fixed so quickly. you are lucky h will go to therapist with you for your marriage. mine says he went (twice...once with me and once alone) so he could learn how to handle me. knowing that is his premise, i would like to get him to go to the sbt person...but i don't think that will work or he will want to give up the time to drive 90 miles each way and have a one hour session.
i am anxious to hear all about your 'recovery'....to me it sounds like a romance novel i would want to read.