I look at it like this and correct me (I am sure there may be some).
I control me. I control my actions and reactions. I strive and continue to strive to exist in our house by doing what I have been doing in regards to home, family and children. This is imperative. If she has issues with that those are her issues (as false or misdirected I feel they are and how I feel that she is incapable of releasing the resentment and whatever else is there) to deal with. Her choice to deal with those issues or not and how she wishes to interact or decide to do are beyond my fixing and in reality are not mine to fix.
Her choice of remaining in the M and working at creating a better, more understanding, and healthy M is completely hers. It is also her choice if she wishes to throw it away if she feels that is a solution to her problem.
In either choice I will have choices to make.
So for now, I am a dad, a friend, I have my job and those responsibilities. I am not a H right now to W, though I will continue to do those duties a H does as long as they do not conflict with givig W space.
F4W
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!
