it’s only safe to not to want your partner when you partner wants you. I find that an odd statement (from Schnarch?). I mean, it almost sounds like it justifies all of the LD, no-effort S's who some people on this board are M to. Soru of like "I don't need to want him/her too much because I know she'll always do the work, the chase, etc." Maybe I just am taking it too far out of context.
