If I do not show attention and affection I may lose her.
If I show affection and attention, I may lose her.
How about the third option, I just act as if, quit creating drama, place this matter in the hands of God, and just be a father, a husband, and a better person. Continue to grow, continue to work on my issues holding me back, and continue to change in a way my Wife wants and let her decide if she wants to stay or go.
F4W (who is leaving to get his kids and be a dad)
Through honest giving of my love I will recieve 10 fold in return.
Just because a person does not love you in the way you want, does not mean they do not love you!