She wants freedom of action, I am sorry but in marriage there is no real such thing, a spouse should know when things are happening and what time frames are. Other ones is being clingy, no physical contact for days.
I doubt you will "win" with this approach. As others have said, she is a WAW. You do not have say in the MARRIAGE anymore. It has been made null and void until SHE decides she wants to work on it. Sucks, but it's true. BTDT I think you need to DETACH.
