Lead, Follow, or File... OH MY!

[Fighting4Wife]

OK.

Just an update of the "bad cinema" or "soap opera" as I believe Cobra put it.

All heck broke away. Not only did I jump in the pit. I dug it, jumped in, sold tickets, popcorn, took bets and all!

She has selected D. Or she did on that night. I confronted her and said there is the door. Do not hesitate. Leave tonight. It was UGLY. Not proud. I am ashamed at my actions and all.

I will say one thing. She is still here. Could not get out of driveway. Kids crying and screaming. She came back. She may not stay, and I will wager she will not. It was not a good sitch to leave under. She will bide her time. But as she does that she still will think. I am not going. I have stopped all emotion to this issue.

Cobra once asked if could face the time when she might choose to leave. I am and have.

I have posted on my other thread some more details that I just do not want to rehash again.

Tomorrow I meet with realtor to do a CMA on the house and an attorney after for initial consult. I have started to open a new account for my check and all credit cards in my name and joint accounts are now frozen.

I continue to love my wife, but I hope for this last time I have freed myself from the self inflicted emotional bondage I placed myself in.

F4W