Fighting, you stated some important and thought provoking questions about the pain you are in and then you dissed yourself with this statement
Quote: Just a big ole heaping of "pity pie" here I guess
You are feeling sad for a real reason, a totally legitimate reason. Anyone would feel sad. Those of us here who are in similar sitch's feel sad about our own circumstances, and sad for you, too. Why did you discount your own feelings with that statement? (That's a rhetorical question.)
Don't treat yourself the way she treats you. Treat yourself with kindness. Don't say or think mean things about yourself. Take yourself seriously. Acknowledge and accept the validity of the way you're feeling, okay?
Edited to add: Our posts crossed. EVERYONE needs to read and possibly print out the differentiation thread.
