RonMom, You probably can't stop the divorce if your H really wants it, but if he has had three OW, this probably won't turn out to be the love of his life. Maybe by the time he comes crawling back, you won't even want him anymore! I know that probably doesn't make you feel much better at the moment. Try to force yourself to keep busy even if you don't want to. It will keep your mind off things. I have to go to bed. I'll be sleeping in church. I have no idea how it got so late! Hang in there!